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Best and Worst Punishments
By
Mary Francen
I have to say that this is an odd thing
to be writing about giggles “Best punishment” umm no offense Daddy Stephen
but there is NOOO such thing as a best punishment giggles. They all are
yucky!!!! : ))
I do have to say though that for me
anyway there are a few that seem to work much better than others, and I can
pinpoint them very clearly and remember them VERY well!!!!
For me the corner doesn’t work to well,
at least standing in it. I can’t do that “I get panicky in small tight
places” however sitting down after or just sitting down somewhere even at my
laptop for a period of time and not being allowed to get up without permission
while being “dressed as little girl” or “bare bottomed” or after a
spanking is something that will drive me batty so to speak, also being sent to
bed early will immediately make me feel like a naughty little girl.
For people having a treat taken away from
them for a week or so is traumatic, well for me, take away my story at bed time
and you will have me in total tears! And forget about taking my songs away, you
won’t get me to sleep if you do that!! “Blushes” But the story will have
me knowing that I have been naughty and am in troubles.
Of course there is the “owie maker”
that thing will always without a doubt see to it that I have been punished, and
of course who would get spanked and not know that they have been punished.
“Giggles”
Getting put in a diaper after a spanking
and put in time out and made to “post” about my naughty is one of the big
punishments that I don’t like either. Because I know that I am still in
troubles and I FEEL it the entire time and I am very much “little” the
entire time.
I have gotten some “BIG spankings”
but they aren’t always the “worst punishments” sometimes for me anyways
it’s the smallest punishments that upset me emotionally the most.
For me when I am getting punished I tend
to get “little” especially if I am getting spanked, or if I am sleepy or
already emotionally upset about something else. So you don’t have to always
employee the same punishment for the same type of offense with me. “as my
Uncle and Daddy have found out” “Giggles”
One of the things that my Uncle has found
out is that making me write something and posting it will get my attentions.
Also making me lie or sit still in
timeout while I am being “talked to” will make me go crazy because I get
“little” while I am being punished so the punishments for me anyway tend to
effect me on both a physical and emotional level during the entire time pretty
well.
My Daddy has found that rewarding me with
a special treat for a certain amount of time being good, such as a trip to the
sticker store works well, also taking said treat away i.e. my sticker chart.
“not giving me my sticker for that day, prolongs the special treat”
However I have also had my mouth washed
out with soap. This one doesn’t upset me all that much, in fact for me
Listerine is a more painful experience each time I brush my teeth “Giggles”.
Some punishments are both for the grownup
me and the little girl me, and those are interesting to say the least. Getting a
big spanking, the tushie plug and being “dressed as a little girl” and made
to sit in time out while doing an assignment of some type is something that is
very emotionally conflicting. “Have you ever tried to compose something while
having a little girl moment giggles?”
Of course there is the writing one
hundred times “ I will do/not do what ever it was you did or did not do
thingy” while sitting in the corner bare bottomed dressed in your most little
girl jimmies. “Blushes crimson” I didn’t like that one at all.
So you see at least for me there are a
very many different punishments that work on me. At least it seems that so far
as I can see anyway that it is not necessarily the “Big spankings” that only
have the biggest affects on me, but also the smallest little punishments, a
scolding and being told that because I didn’t ask the first time to jump on
the bed and thus can not do it this time, while being made to lie there on the
bed still and quietly for a while, will upset me just as much as if I had been
spanked for not remembering to ask to jump on said bed in the first place.
I have some difficulties with remembering
things at times, so both Daddy and Uncle will employee differing punishments
with me, I do find it interesting that each of them “raises me” a little
differently, but both with love.
I guess that is the biggest thing with
the punishments, for me anyway, I must always hear the words “your forgiven”
after being punished. And the
cuddles that come with those words. No matter if it is “Big me or little me”
that has received said punishment.
I feel anyway, that a slight look, a
couple of words spoken and even a single swat, can have the same effect as a big
spanking, being sent to my room, or sent to bed either for a nap or to bed
early, it all depends on the situation and what is going on with my emotional
mindset at the time.
Being that I am not one who likes to make
either Daddy or Uncle “not happy at me” I will get upset at just hearing
that phrase “Your Uncle is not happy” my tummy starts to do the butterfly
dance and I get weepy, and pretty soon I am in tears.
Sometimes tears do not come all that
easily for me, they never have. But making Uncle or Daddy “not happy” with
me is one sure fire way to make them come and come in waves like the ocean. That
is one of the reasons hearing the words “your forgiven” is so important for
me, even though I have been told that I am always forgiven before the punishment
even happens, I still need to actually hear those words. For me being in trouble
leaves me very small and insecure, and vulnerable and very much little so for me
it’s kind of hard for me to say what is the best and worst punishments, as
they all have the same basic effect. They make me sorry I was a naughty little
girl, :) and that I want to be forgiven and cuddled as soon as possible. :))))
