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Why I like and Dislike Punishments

By Mary Francen


The word punishment brings up many emotions first of all being that of course who would like them when they are happening, anyone who tells you they do I will have to say is fibbing. I include myself in that. However on the other side of that coin would be the fact that having someone or in my case two someone’s who care enough to do said punishing means a great deal to me.

For me being punished means that I have boundaries and love and security, as well as safety and people who care enough about me to “raise me” to be the best person that I can be.

So while I most defiantly do NOT like them while they are going on, no matter if it is a spanking, time-out what ever it is, I do understand the need for them in my life.

I can say that I do NOT like them at all; I am one of these people who does not consider herself to be a brat. I may get “bratty and/or fussy” at times, but so far as being “defiant” just for the sake of doing so. No that is not me, there for getting punished is just that for me solely getting punished. It is a very upsetting thing for me on an emotional level.

I like the fact that both Daddy and Uncle will punish me when I have done wrong, because it shows me that they both love me enough to do so. It shows me that I truly am there little one and that they would do what ever it took to keep me safe and loved and cared for.

For me I do not tend to question authority to much, if I am say told to do something, I will for the most part do it without question, unless I see it as something dangerous or harmful to me. “Whining about wanting cannie fishies aside” :) I trust both Daddy and Uncle so much and know that neither of them would do anything to hurt me “beyond a sore tushie that is” 

I have always been one who looks up to and has sought an adults love and attentions in a good manor but it was a deeply guarded secret. So as such I accept the rules and punishments pretty much without question. Unless I truly feel that the rule or punishment is “nuts” and then I will provide a reasonable argument.

There are of course some punishments that I dislike more than others. What little girl doesn’t right? “Giggles” but of course I do know that after all of them there will be the forgiveness and cuddles after them. :) So that also makes accepting them a lot easier.

When I was working I was the one in charge and it took a lot of stuff out of me, to be always be “in control of things” and at times I saw that I didn’t do such a wonderful job of it. So it is nice to know that even than I could come home and not have to worry about that.

I saw some things in me that I did need to change things that I had picked up while working and I wanted to change so I did discuss them with Daddy those are rules that I wanted and he agreed to.

There are some rules that I have that I also “self created” and there are rules that Daddy put into place as well, “Daddy doesn’t like to be told no, or get raspberries” :) Uncle has similar rules about some things as well but he allows the occasional “pinch” so long as it’s in play teasing where as Daddy doesn’t. :) But uncle doesn’t mess with the ninis thing where as Daddy is a lot more lenient with that. If Uncle says it’s time for bed, he means it. “Don’t let him start to count or “gulps” get to five giggles because then your tushie is gonna get it!  :(.

Punishments are something I like because they are all part of being in a “family” they are also part of being loved and taken care of.  For me I am truly a “little girl at heart” that for me having my “family” Uncle and Daddy taking care of me, in all of the ways that they do, is just what I call “normal”. So the punishments while I do not like them are also as normal as the hugs and kisses each morning that I receive and the bedtime stories and songs I receive each night. :)

I don’t know if I could have what I have now, the safety and security and love and happiness without having all of the thingies in the puzzle being there. And that does include “shrugs and makes a face” punishments, even if this little girl hates to admit that at times. Just as with a giant jigsaw puzzle if one of the many pieces is missing it doesn’t look right, so does a “family” if one of the components is missing.

So I would have to say that yes and no I like and dislike punishments ‘Giggles” I know that they are a necessary evil in this little girl’s belief. And while I know that they have to be, I wish they didn’t while they are going on. And the entire time that they are going on all I want is the lap of said Uncle or Daddy doing said punishment. “Giggles and blushes”.